What can we do with our eyes? Some people prefere them covered with make-up, others hide them underneath cool glasses. But what can we so with our eyes?
"Eye contact provides social information to the person you are listening to and talking to. Too much eye contact and you could be seen as aggressive, too little eye contact and you can be seen as having no interest in the person speaking. It is an often overlooked skill to have and an under utilised skill when communicating with people."
So don't stare at people for too long, only people who love eachother can stare in eachothers eyes. Otherwise it will get uncomfortable at some point.
In my opinion eyes are very important, I mean if a guy has nice eyes you can just keep on watching them. Yeah well at this point I think i need to use the tip of not looking for someone too long, maby this guy will think I want to attack him or something.
"Frequent blinking during conversation indicates high interest. Some women use a rapid flutter of their eyelashes to get a man's attention."
"A wink with the closed eye directed at a person implies a shared secret. When winking at an opposite sex stranger it implies you have undisclosed desire for them. "
So, what am I going to do next time I want to make contact? Well this:
watch-blink-blink-watch- look away- watch-blink-blink-watch-wink-blink-blink
No way, this guy will think there is something in my eye or something. Not good.
Anyway I think you should just watch someone in the eye when you talk, if you like that person you should look away and watch again. If you want to show respect you should watch someone in the eye but not for too long but keep on watching otherwise you look distracted. And well just do what you do automaticly I guess, I mean you are not paying attention when you are thinking how to watchi someone at the moemnt you are talking to that person. So just dont think and talk.
WINK
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dinsdag 9 november 2010
The eyes are the mirror of the soul
woensdag 13 oktober 2010
I am proud
WOOUUUWWIIEE
Yesterday there were 11 people looking at my blog!
So ok, what I was thinking today is the fact that we sort of name things after things we know. Like my dog is called Spok, she is a german pointer. And when I see another german pointer, I don't say hey, is that a german pointer? No, I, and a lot of others too, say hey is that another Spok?? I just name the thing after things we know. It is like the same with Harry Potter. When we see Daniel Radcliffe, we automaticly say O it is Harry Potter. And what do you think about Edward Cullen? O I mean Robert Pattinson? This is strange, I mean just think about it!!
I am just going to stop writing, I already typed 3 different paragraphs about weird stuff which is going on in my mind. But I think I just cant explain what is going on in my mind. So I am not even going to do another attemt to explain it.
I actually think that you can never describe the exact mood you are in, because it is just a feeling, and evreyone has different feelings.
I wonder if there are people that feel the exact same way as I do when I feel happy.
OK, I am just going to stop talking for now. Think a little bit, let your brain work and Ill speek to you tomorrow!
Goodnight!
Yesterday there were 11 people looking at my blog!
So ok, what I was thinking today is the fact that we sort of name things after things we know. Like my dog is called Spok, she is a german pointer. And when I see another german pointer, I don't say hey, is that a german pointer? No, I, and a lot of others too, say hey is that another Spok?? I just name the thing after things we know. It is like the same with Harry Potter. When we see Daniel Radcliffe, we automaticly say O it is Harry Potter. And what do you think about Edward Cullen? O I mean Robert Pattinson? This is strange, I mean just think about it!!
I am just going to stop writing, I already typed 3 different paragraphs about weird stuff which is going on in my mind. But I think I just cant explain what is going on in my mind. So I am not even going to do another attemt to explain it.
I actually think that you can never describe the exact mood you are in, because it is just a feeling, and evreyone has different feelings.
I wonder if there are people that feel the exact same way as I do when I feel happy.
OK, I am just going to stop talking for now. Think a little bit, let your brain work and Ill speek to you tomorrow!
Goodnight!
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